Book of Memories for Lyman Bruce Oakes

Condolence From Jed Reid

Fri, 24 Dec 2010 01:19:37 EST

His legacy is that he always told it like it was;even when I didnt want to hear it. I owe much gratitude to Slink;my one and only sponsor.Rough and tough cream puff Slink...the truths and observations he shared are still facts today;almost 16 years later(no psychobabble--just cold hard nitty gritty Program and heartfelt wisdom that worked. Thanks for the humility and the "undercover work."Slink helped more people than most know!He helped me to realize gratitude and to never forget"the tough ones are still out there.See you down the road my friend

Condolence From Shaun McGuire

Sat, 18 Dec 2010 15:34:22 EST

Slink....you will be sadly missed.With a deep regret to you and your family Mae and Bruce McGuire were unable to make the long journey across the snowy and ice covered roads to pay tribute to a lifelong friend.With our heartfelt condolences to friends and family of "Slink".Rest in Peace. Mae and Bruce McGuire

Condolence From Inge Paraszcyn

Fri, 17 Dec 2010 01:44:50 EST

Dear Slink, You have always been in the company of angels. I always remember you standing on the stairs of the Thistletown club house ... for me you invented cool, an original, a one-of-a-kind. My teenage rebel hero. When I was sixteen you took my transistor radio, made me so mad for so long, and when I mentioned it on your birthday, you called me a _ _ from you it was a compliment. You said that you knew me "longer than snow" ... the long snow kept me away today. Will miss you forever.

Condolence From Mary Wick

Fri, 17 Dec 2010 00:14:36 EST

All though I never knew any of you, I only knew Lyman from being a regular at Tim Hortons, So I send my thought and prayers to you family in this time of sorrow.

Story shared: Lyman, school days

Thu, 16 Dec 2010 14:04:45 EST

Years ago when we lived north of Bolton, Ontario. Lyman, George, Wayne & I (Dianne) attended a one room school. Grades 1to 9. Lyman liked to play practical jokes. He brought sneezing & itching powder to school and sprinkled the older boys with it. Even the teacher, Mrs. Brookes ended up with some on her. This was a big joke to the rest of us kids. I remember the scrambling around and the teacher dousing the kids with a bucket of water. Lyman was expelled. Same school & teacher. Lyman had ex-lax’s. He broke them up into individual squares so they would look more like chocolate candy. Put them in a brown bag and offered them to kids he didn’t like. Well you can imagine. We only had one bathroom!!!! Lyman was expelled. The third time Lyman was expelled he involved me in his scheme. There was an orchard across from the school. The owner was very protective of his apples. Lyman wanted the apples. He had a plan. He boosted me over the fence to pick the apples and pass them through the fence to him. Thinking because I was a little girl (6 years old) I wouldn’t get into trouble. The owner caught me. Lyman defended me. Lyman was expelled. Miss you big brother, Love Dianne

Story shared: My name

Wed, 15 Dec 2010 21:24:19 EST

My dad wanted to call me Harley and my mom would not have it! His next choice was Honda. My mom wanted Rebeca so he said "Rhonda, it is Honda with an R in front of it. I will never forget that story of how I got my name. Love, "R" "Honda" lol

Condolence From Gary Elford (Duck)

Wed, 15 Dec 2010 21:10:49 EST

Wish to send most sincere condolences at the loss of 'Slink'. Road with him in the Vagabonds for many years and have very fond memories of our time together. Saw him about a year ago and we had a great visit. I'm sure he'll be missed by his family and many others.

Story shared: Memories

Wed, 15 Dec 2010 20:53:33 EST

This song has always made me think of my dad. I have played it many times over the years and each time with tears in my eyes. This time is even worse. I have missed you soooooo much! I love you daddy. Conway Twitty - Hello Darlin

Condolence From Rhonda (Oakes) McIntosh

Wed, 15 Dec 2010 19:53:22 EST

It was not until yesterday that I realized I am my fathers daughter in so many ways, hard headed on the surface and mush on the inside. I guess there was something to what my mother used to always say "You are just like your father!". I am proud to be his daughter. My heart goes out to everyone who loved my dad and who he loved. He will be missed and remembered by many.

Condolence From Nancy Oakes

Wed, 15 Dec 2010 19:42:25 EST

My first memories of you Lyman was the first time I went to Prince Edward Island, and your mother told you to get the clothes pegs that was along the fence, so I could hang my washing. You were very shy and spoke very little. As the years went by you grew up and became very outspoken. I love you and may God go with you. Say hi to Vern.....

Story shared: My dad

Wed, 15 Dec 2010 19:31:33 EST

He loved to tell jokes, go to the flee market, yard sales, reading the paper, eating a good home cooked meal, ride his bikes, take care of his cars, visit P.E.I, visit his mom, wearing his blue jeans, standing his ground, loved his family and yes I can say......he loved me. I will miss you forever. Love, Rhonda

Photo shared: Daddy and me

Wed, 15 Dec 2010 18:22:24 EST

I have always loved you daddy. Until we meet again. Love, Rhonda

Photo shared: My mom, dad and me

Wed, 15 Dec 2010 18:19:50 EST

God rest both of their souls. You both will be remembered forever. Love, Rhonda

Condolence From Ronette Shewell

Wed, 15 Dec 2010 17:22:44 EST

My deepest sympathy at the loss of Lyman. He was a true friend. Always there when you needed him. He was always offering his help to my family. He is in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Ronette Shewell

Condolence From Gail Ree

Wed, 15 Dec 2010 06:47:25 EST

Uncle Lyman, As a child I known you as Uncle Sling, who drove a Harley and in your youth you were a rebel with a cause. Now you are with George, Wayne and Dad and your parents. Drive high in the sky on your Harley Uncle Sling. Peace be with you...... Gail and Steve Ree and Family

Condolence From Marilyn Hatfield

Tue, 14 Dec 2010 21:37:42 EST

MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO THE OAKES FAMILY. 'SLINKSTER' WAS A GOOD FRIEND OF MY BROTHERS FOR MANY, MANY YEARS AND I BECAME A FRIEND OF HIM AS WELL. WE HAVE HAD LOTS OF LAUGHS AND CRYS THROUGH OUR LIVES, SLINK HAD SOME ROUGH EDGES BUT HE HAD A SMOOTH AND GIVING HEART AND WAS A VERY CARING GUY.....ONCE YOU KNEW HIM. R.I.P. SLINKSTER 'TIL WE MEET AGAIN!! YOUR FRIEND MARILYN xo

Condolence From Shelene Romanelli

Tue, 14 Dec 2010 20:54:46 EST

This is very sad news. Lyman will certainly be missed. I hold a special place in my heart for him and always will. He influenced my life in many ways and I am a better person because of him. As rough as he was around the edges, he was nothing but a big teddy bear. I love you Slinkster and will never forget the times we spent together. We will meet again my dear friend.